As I was planning for this year’s visit to ASSG I was wanting to do something special with the students in year 12; most of whom I had known since year 8. I wanted to do something not only interesting with them, but something that they could take away and would remind them of our visits over the years. Then I had a thought that it would be very appropriate to make Holding Crosses with them. Holding Crosses, first developed by Sr Angela, have a story behind them which seemed fitting for the occasion. Sr Angela developed her Holding Cross for a woman who had been under house arrest because of her anti-apartheid activities in South Africa. The Cross was sent with the message as you hold this know that we pray for you or words to that effect. This seemed an apt way to offer the students something meaningful which expressed a sentiment of similar thought; that it, as we said to them, this is a gift that we can give them that they could take away and when they hold it they might remember the times we spent together at ASSG.

We were overwhelmingly surprised at the positive response. Students spent a great deal of time preparing their Crosses; frequently coming up to us to show how they were progressing with their Crosses. Even students in junior years were wanting to make their own. We explained, however, that this was something we wanted to do with the year 12s and that we would do the same with them when they leave school. Some of the year 11s said they hoped they’d get a chance to make some next year.

Sometimes the simplest thing is the best.

For the past few years I have been visiting All Souls St Gabriels School in Charters Towers. It is one of the events in my calender that I truly look forward to. The school is made up of All Souls school for boys established by the Brotherhood of St Barnabas in 1920 and St Gabriels school for girls established in 1921 by the Society of the Sacred Advent. Originally a Diocesan school ASSG is now an independent school which retains its Anglican identity and traditions.

The Chapel has been, and is, the heart of the school community. Yesterday we celebrated the 50th anniversary of the consecration of the Chapel. The place was full, bringing community members, past and present students, Diocesan Bishops and Clergy, friends and supporters all together to mark 50 years of service to the school community. In his address Archbishop Aspinall recounted how the school has maintained it’s focus of to serve is to rule throughout it’s history. Indeed, he added, that the school it self was living testimony to its motto; having served in various capacaties, including as a makeshift hospital during the war.

One has to experience ‘Souls’ life to appreciate the reality of its place as both school and community. What particularly strikes me is the sense of welcome and inclusion one feels on entering this community of men and women. Their willingness to participate and have a go is their strength. We have been made most welcome by all here at the school. We have found both staff and students willing to befriend and share with us in meals, in play, in work, and especially in prayer.

  

Well as they say, all good things must come to an end. As always I was a little saddened to leave the school community I had been a part of over the last 10 days. It feels as though I was just beginning to develop relationships with the school community and then it was time to leave. As always I am grateful for the welcome I receive when I attend TSS. The hospitality, fellowship and willingness to be open to sharing part of their life with me is always moving. Being a part of the preparations for Baptism, First Communion and Confirmation is a particularly wonderful experience. As are the opportunities to just hang out with students during lunch and other social occasions. Occasionally, there are boys with whom I seem to develop some connection who want to share with me some of the rewards and challenges of their lives as members of the school community. I’m deeply honoured by their trust of, and openness with me.

I am already looking forward to other opportunities to share part of the activities in the school as well our annual visit next year. My thanks to the school community, students, parents, staff for their welcome and hospitality.

Last year I facilitated a series of prayer workshops at St John’s Anglican Church, Canberra. It was then I met Rev Greg Thompson. Last night I was fortunate enough to be able to attend his Ordination as a Bishop in the Church of God and his installation as the Bishop of the Northern Territory.

The Cathedral was packed. People had come from near and far to be with Greg during his Ordination. Clearly this was a man who had touched many lives. The service was very moving with a mix of traditional and cultural. Of particular note was the reading of the Epistle in one of the local languages and the rousing singing by members of a local college choir.

Tuesday and Wednesday was a highlight of the school visit. Over 50 prep school students came to be Baptised and or admitted to Communion. Parents, friends, sponsors, teachers all came to support the students in this big day.

It was great to be a part of their preparation for First Communion and then to be part of the service. For most of them this was their first time wearing their Chapel Dress, or being in the senior Chapel. It was a particular treat for them on the Wednesday night when the senior school captain was present to show his support. Though a secret was given away about a certain prep boy who had to be asked to leave Chapel once, yes even great leaders can start out as terrors.

I’m sure that every proud parent and supporter looked on with pride as each boy for Baptism came forward and later as each of them affirmed their faith and their desire to be admitted to Communion. This followed by glowing prep students coming forward and taking their first Communion. The site had to be experienced, words cannot express it well enough.

Prep Chapels

Br Wade and I were invited to lead the prep school chapel services. Br Wade spoke to the Cribb (junior prep) Chapel students about faith, which like a mustard seed, grows from a small seed. He used the story of an Emperor who seeks to find a child to be his heir. The children are given a seed to grow. A Year later the children return with their plants. One child had no success, he grew nothing. He is chose. Why, because the Emperor had deliberately given them seeds which would not grow, and the boy was the only one not to try and trick the Emperor by bringing a plan which they grew from another seed. The Emperor was looking for the child who had honesty and integrity, this would be the Emperor’s heir.

Later, in the Upper Prep (senior) Chapel we talked about the importance of sharing. I used the story of the Knight who made Stone Soup. After being refused food by a village the Knight makes soup from a stone he tripped over on his journey to the village. He eventually encourages the people of the villiage to contribute to the Soup; feeding all the villiage.

I was impressed how engaging the students were during the Chapel services. Their willingness to participate was wonderful. Some of these students were also ones who were candidates for Baptism and First Communion. I knew that they had taken the story on board when a number of them refereed to it later.

What can we learn about leadership from a piece of string? The question I posed to the prefects-elect at their Institution Service. Basically it is easier to pull a string than it is to push it. That is, leadership which seeks to lead by example, drawing people forward will be more successful than leadership which seeks to ‘expect rather than do’. Leadership, I shared with them, is hard, it requires sacrifice, it requires time and energy, it requires stepping up to the plate when you risk popularity and friendship.

Leaders who model themselves on the life of Christ will be leaders who pull the string and don’t push it. Christ taught us that we must be concerned about those who others are not concerned, to help those who cannot help themselves, to stand up for those who have no one to advocate for them, to be prepared to serve rather than be served.

New and continuing prefects were challenged to think about the kind of leadership style they would express. Would they be a leader who leads by example or one who leads by force. After which the newly elected prefects stood before their peers, friends, family, and school community and pledged to exercise their office with honesty and integrity. It was particulalry good to be a part of this service when one of the gentlemen was a fellow who I have worked with alongside through his role as Sacristan.  

Part of the brother’s visit to TSS is centred around the Confirmation (and Baptism) of students, family members and staff. I always find this part of our visit a particular privilege. We get to spend time getting to know the candidates and talking with them on various aspects of faith. This year we were invited to talk on aspects of scripture, prayer and rule of life as well as reinforcing information on the Sacraments. 

I initially found it challenging to try and link the topics of scripture, prayer and rule of life. However, as I was preparing for the session it became crystal clear. Scripture, I shared with the candidates, is the basis of our faith. Scripture is the way in which God reveals God’s self to humanity. It is in Scripture that we learn all we need to learn to know how to respond to God’s call for us to enter into relationship with God. Prayer then, was the way in which we respond to God’s Divine Revelation. Prayer is the way in which we hear God’s Word, allow it to become part of us and transform us, and to then live that out in our lives. Through developing a rule of life we can develop habits which allow us to hear and respond to the Word of God. 

After reviewing the Sacraments of the Church and how we are called to a Sacramental life as members of the Church the Candidates then met with Bishop Rob Nolan. This was their opportunity to meet him and vice versa. Lunch with the Bishop is an integral part of the Candidates’ Confirmation experience. 

Finally the time arrived. Parents, friends, sponsors, and members of the school community all arrived for that special moment. One cannot help but feel anything but pride as the young men and women came to affirm their faith, and for some to be received as members of the body of Christ through Baptism. As each candidate for Baptism and or Confirmation came forward I realised the privelge one is given in these moments to help start them on a new faith journey with God.

We cannot give these students our God experiences, which would lead them into a relationship with God, but we can help create a space for them to have their own God experiences. I know from talking with some students who have been part of the Baptism and Confirmation service, either as a Candidate or supporter, that they do indeed have some experience of being open to the present reality of God.

There are many moving experiences that I have during visits to schools. I was particularly moved by the experience of praying with the First and Second XV rugby teams and the First XI football (soccer) team. The rugby teams meet in the Chapel before their games and the football team meets on their pitch. They don’t meet to pray for victory over the other team; though I’m sure it is also a silent prayer left unsaid. Rather they meet to be a team who prays together, giving thanks to God for their talent and prayers to use that fairly. They also meet to pray for team mates who are injured and to give thanks for those who support them and coach them.

The Chaplain will share some words of scripture with them and then some reflection on mateship, team spirit, or reflections on who we can draw out experiences of living a christian life through playing sport; or rather how to express christian values through playing sport. The Chaplain will also bless a palm cross for the teams, he gives this to the captain who then gives each of the players a piece of the palm to carry with them during the game. This connects them to their school motto ‘let him how deserves victory bear the palm’. The rugby boys then finish their service by singing verses of Amazing Grace. They may be only be a few young men but the Chapel rings out with their voices. Their singing is not the quietness of one hiding under a bushel but one who is unafraid to express their faith.

Br Wade and I were especially privileged on the Saturday as we were invited to share some prayers and blessings with the First XI between their pre-game warm up and the match. The captain of the 1st XI himself one of the candidates for Confirmation on Sunday.

It can be easy to make jokes about ’the other religions’ of society (i.e. rugby). But from the experience of a few boys we can learn that there are moments when the divine and the secular can meet.  

The Southport School is an Anglican Boy’s day and boarding school located near the Gold Coast, Qld. The brothers have been visiting the school for a number of years, participating in the life of the school, sharing time with the boys and being involved in the boy’s preparation for Confirmation. This year is my 5th visit to the school. I always enjoy visiting the school and spending time with the students, staff and parents. The school community is always very welcoming and I have been particularly blessed to have the opportunity to live with the students in one of the school house; Biddle House. The hospitality of the students, resident masters, house master and his family always makes me feel part of the school family.

Br Wade and I arrived ‘hitting the ground running’. We arrived in time to assist the Chaplains and other members of staff with the preparation of over 50 prep school students to be admitted to First Communion. I was taken by the prep students’ interest in the various topics we covered. Particularly so by students who wanted to enter into discussions about the nature of the Trinity or the nature of Jesus (humanity v divinity). The level of interest and desire to learn took me by surprise; I had to defer some of their curiosity to their regular RE teacher who would have more time to satisfy their curious minds.

Later in the evening we met most of the 17 students who were undertaking preparations for Confirmation. It was pleasing to see so many young people who wanted to explore and affirm their faith. It was also pleasing to see a variety of students, siblings, senior students, prep students, students who are strongly academic and students who are strongly sport oriented. It showed me that faith and religion transcends other boundaries which can sometimes separate or ‘catagorise’ individuals and groups.

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